Showing posts with label holidays. Show all posts
Showing posts with label holidays. Show all posts

Thursday, December 25, 2025

Essay: If I could talk to the animals . . .


By Paul Carrier
 
Here it is, Christmas, and the legend lives on. I refer to the claim that animals can speak at midnight on Christmas morning, which I have yet to prove or disprove because I’m an “early to bed early to rise” kind of guy who couldn’t stay up until midnight if my life depended on it.

Last night was no exception. For all I know, our dog, Will, or our cat, Leo, talked up a storm when the new day began. I was in dreamland at that hour, oblivious to any chatter involving the furry set. As for the hens we kept in years gone by, they always were tucked into their coop at dusk, where I doubt that they uttered so much as a peep. Chickens, the experts say, sleep so soundly that they fall into a trance-like state during the night.


Even if I had jumped from my bed when the clock struck 12, only to find Will and Leo silent, it would not have disproved the legend. One version of the tale has it that animals only speak at midnight on Christmas if they understand what humans are saying to them. Another variation claims that humans can comprehend the speech of animals at midnight on Christmas, but it is bad luck to eavesdrop on them.


The legend loses its magic if we try to analyze it. Fanciful notions appeal to us precisely because they are whimsical. Fortunately, the imagination exists in a realm that is beyond the reach of reason.

Tuesday, December 23, 2025

Essay: Christmas in "la Nouvelle-Angleterre"


By Paul Carrier

When I was a youngster growing up in a mill town in Massachusetts, my parents, and my younger brother and I, always went to midnight Mass on Christmas.

Though many years -- decades, really -- have passed since this ritual drew to a close, it remains one of my fondest memories of the holiday season.

Mom and Dad would send David and me to bed early on Christmas Eve, so we could rest up for the big event. Then they would wake us up around 10:30 or so, to get dressed and prepare ourselves for the one-mile drive to Sacred Heart Church.

I always enjoyed watching the 11 o’clock news out of Boston or Providence while we waited to hit the road because it usually featured a story tracking Santa’s progress on his travels from the North Pole. I seem to remember that the “data” for these reports came from NORAD, which provided an air of authenticity.

But the highlight was the Mass itself. The familiar Catholic rite was accented by the holiday decorations and the soaring voices of the choir in the loft that held our church’s magnificent organ.

In those days, Sacred Heart Church (l'Église du Sacré-Coeur), was a Franco-American parish whose parishioners had roots in Québec and, going further back in time, in France. Initially, the Mass was celebrated in Latin, and later in French. But the Christmas hymns always were French carols that my ancestors had brought from Québec to "la Nouvelle-Angleterre" (New England).

I grew up in a French-speaking home. We spoke French exclusively at our house until I started school, although I understood English early on. At St. Joan of Arc School (l'École Sainte-Jeanne-d'Arc), the Sisters of the Assumption taught half a day of classes in English and the other half in French. So, hearing French carols sung in church was simply part of the natural order of things during my childhood.

Les anges dans nos campagnes (the French carol known in the English-speaking world as Angels We Have Head on High) was one of my favorites. So were Minuit, chrétiens (the original version of O Holy Night), Dans cette étable and Il est né, le divin Enfant, among others.

I remember the music from many French carols, and the lyrics of some of them, even though it has been many years since I’ve heard them sung in a church. More than anything else, it is French carols that instill the Christmas spirit in me, to this day. At least once before Christmas each year, I always listen to a cherished recording of them.

Sung as they are in my first language, these carols instantly transport me back in time. The years slip away. Once again I am an awestruck but delighted child sitting in L’Église du Sacré-Coeur in Southbridge, Massachusetts, attending midnight Mass on a dark and cold, but gloriously new, Christmas morning. The whole world was filled with joy and reverence during that service. Or so it seemed to an impressionable little boy.

Monday, December 22, 2025

Essay: Fond memories of the holidays of yesteryear


By Paul Carrier 

When my parents and mother-in-law were still with us, my wife Liz and I mumbled and grumbled our way through an exhausting Christmas ritual year after year that involved extensive logistics, many hours on interstate highways and a wearying trek across state lines.

Loading up the car with gifts, luggage and dogs, we would hit the road on Dec. 24 for a 200-mile drive from Maine to my mother-in-law’s house in southeastern Massachusetts, or, in her later years, to her in-law apartment in Rhode Island.

After spending Christmas Eve there, we’d hop into the car on Christmas morning for a 90-minute trip to my parents’ home in central Massachusetts, where we’d spend the night. We'd meet friends for brunch on the 26th. Often, we’d then head back to pick up my mother-in-law Georgiana, who returned to Maine with us.

A week or two later, we took to the road again to bring Georgie back home. Or we would drive 100 miles to Portsmouth, N.H., where we sometimes handed her over to in-laws who drove Georgie the rest of the way back to Massachusetts or Rhode Island.

I remember how, in those days, Liz and I used to speak longingly of what it would be like to have a relaxing Christmas at home, minus the hustle-bustle of hauling seemingly everyone and everything across much of New England over the course of three days or more. It’s not that we didn’t want to spend time with our parents. Quite the opposite. Yet getting there and back became more problematic with each passing year, as our own aging made these long excursions less appealing.

Then, my father died in 2003. Georgie passed away in 2009. And my mother Rita died the following year.

Now, at long last, Liz and I spend the holidays quietly, at home in Maine. We do enjoy the tranquility. But how I wish I could make that maddening, tiresome, inconvenient trek to southern New England one more time, to spend another Christmas with parents whose absence is especially painful when the holidays roll around.


I wouldn't even grumble. Not for a second.

Sunday, December 21, 2025

Deck us all with Boston Charlie . . . ."


Readers of a certain age (i.e., older than dirt) will remember Walt Kelly’s long-gone Pogo, generally regarded by people who are knowledgeable about such things as one of the greatest comic strips of all time. Pogo was memorable for many reasons, one of which is that Kelly concocted his own nonsensical version of Deck the Halls entitled Deck us all with Boston Charlie. You know the tune already. And so, without further ado, here are the lyrics:

Deck us all with Boston Charlie,
Walla Walla, Wash., and Kalamazoo!
Nora’s freezin’ on the trolley,
Swaller dollar cauliflower Alley’garoo!

Don’t we know archaic barrel,
Lullaby Lilla Boy, Louisville Lou?
Trolley Molly don’t love Harold,
Boola Boola Pensacoola hullabaloo!

Bark us all bow-wows of folly,
Polly welly cracker n’ too-da-loo!
Donkey Bonny brays a carol,
Antelope Cantaloup, ‘lope with you!

Hunky Dory’s pop is lolly gaggin’ on the wagon,
Willy, folly go through!
Chollie’s collie barks at Barrow,
Harum scarum five alarum bung-a-loo!

Duck us all in bowls of barley,
Ninky dinky dink an’ polly voo!
Chilly Filly’s name is Chollie
Chollie Filly’s jolly chilly view halloo!

Bark us all bow-wows of folly,
Double-bubble, toyland rouble! Woof, Woof, Woof!
Tizzy seas on melon collie!
Dibble-dabble, scribble-scrabble! Goof, Goof, Goof!

Saturday, December 20, 2025

The most beautiful Christmas carol you've never heard


Many years ago, I bought a CD of Christmas music by Canadian artist Bruce Cockburn. I'm a big fan of his music, and this release was especially appealing because it contains Cockburn’s rendition of The Huron Carol. 

As Canada’s oldest Christmas hymn, The Huron Carol may well be the oldest song of its type in all of North America. It was written in the 1640s by Jean de Brébeuf, a French Jesuit missionary who lived and worked among the Hurons, also known as the Wendat or Wyandot.


Brébeuf, who was killed by the Iroquois in 1649 and is now considered a saint by the Catholic Church, spoke Huron and wrote the lyrics of The Huron Carol in that language. He set the lyrics to a French melody, and used the carol to help explain the Christian nativity story to the Huron people.


Cockburn sings the carol in Huron. He lists the title on the liner notes as Jesus Ahatonnia, which translates as "Jesus is born." An Anglicized version of the carol appeared in the early 20th century.


I became fond of this carol in part because my wife Liz has a Huron branch in her family tree. (Liz is a direct descendant of Martin Prévost and Marie Olivier Sylvestre Manitouabéouich, whose 1644 wedding in Québec was the first recorded marriage in Canada of a Frenchman and an Indigenous woman.) I find the carol to be simultaneously haunting, uplifting and melancholy, even though I don't understand the words in Cockburn's Huron rendition.


It seems fitting that Canada's oldest Christmas carol was written in the language of one of the First Nations, as Indian tribes are known in Canada. Unlike so many classic carols, which are European in origin, The Huron Carol commemorates the holiday in a truly North American fashion.

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Here's a link to an English performance of The Huron Carol. To hear Cockburn's version in Huron, click here. A beautiful children's book entitled "The Huron Carol," illustrated by Frances Tyrrell, was published, in English, in 2003 by Eerdmans Books for Young Readers. The illustration at the top of this post is from that book. 

Thursday, November 27, 2025

There are scant eyewitness accounts of the first thanksgiving

Illustration from N. C. Wyeth's Pilgrims

As celebrated as the first thanksgiving is, there are few surviving eyewitness accounts of what the Pilgrims did to commemorate the harvest of 1621. In fact, according to the Pilgrim Hall Museum in Plymouth, Mass., there are only two primary sources describing what transpired: Edward Winslow’s Mourt’s Relation and William Bradford’s Of Plymouth Plantation. Both entries are brief, and only one of them mentions the Pilgrims and the Wampanoag Indians dining together. Here, using modern spelling, is what Winslow and Bradford wrote.

William Bradford

They began now to gather in the small harvest they had, and to fit up their houses and dwellings against winter, being all well recovered in health and strength and had all things in good plenty.  For as some were thus employed in affairs abroad, others were exercised in fishing, about cod and bass and other fish, of which they took good store, of which every family had their portion. All the summer there was no want; and now began to come in store of fowl, as winter approached, of which this place did abound when they came first (but afterward decreased by degrees).  And besides waterfowl there was great store of wild turkeys, of which they took many, besides venison, etc. Besides, they had about a peck of meal a week to a person, or now since harvest, Indian corn to that proportion.  Which made many afterwards write so largely of their plenty here to their friends in England, which were not feigned but true reports.

Edward Winslow

Our harvest being gotten in, our governor sent four men on fowling, that so we might after a special manner rejoice together, after we had gathered the fruits of our labors; they four in one day killed as much fowl, as with a little help beside, served the Company almost a week, at which time amongst other Recreations, we exercised our Arms, many of the Indians coming amongst us, and amongst the rest their greatest king Massasoit, with some ninety men, whom for three days we entertained and feasted, and they went out and killed five Deer, which they brought to the Plantation and bestowed on our Governor, and upon the Captain and others. And although it be not always so plentiful, as it was at this time with us, yet by the goodness of God, we are so far from want, that we often wish you partakers of our plenty.

Monday, May 26, 2025

Remembering Maj. Sullivan Ballou on Memorial Day

Anyone who has seen Ken Burns’ moving miniseries, The Civil War, will recall the hauntingly beautiful letter that Maj. Sullivan Ballou of the 2nd Rhode Island Infantry wrote to his wife Sarah on July 14, 1861, while his regiment was stationed in Washington, D.C. Ballou was mortally wounded on July 21, 1861, at the first Battle of Bull Run and died on July 29. He was 32 years old.

Born in Smithfield, R.I., in 1829, Ballou was of Huguenot ancestry. A Republican lawyer, he served as speaker of the R.I. House of Representatives. He married Sarah Hart Shumway in 1855. A son, Edgar, was born in 1856, followed by a second son, William, in 1859. Ballou’s widow, who was 24 at the time of his death, never remarried. She died in her early 80s in 1917. Sarah and her husband are buried beside one another at Swan Point Cemetery in Providence, R.I. 


Here, on this Memorial Day, when we honor those who died in battle, is an abridged version of Sullivan Ballou's last letter to his beloved wife.

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My very dear Sarah:
 
The indications are very strong that we shall move in a few days - perhaps tomorrow. Lest I should not be able to write again, I feel impelled to write a few lines that may fall under your eye when I shall be no more.


I have no misgivings about, or lack of confidence in the cause in which I am engaged, and my courage does not halt or falter. I know how strongly American Civilization now leans on the triumph of the Government and how great a debt we owe to those who went before us through the blood and sufferings of the Revolution. And I am willing - perfectly willing - to lay down all my joys in this life, to help maintain this Government, and to pay that debt . . .

Sarah my love for you is deathless, it seems to bind me with mighty cables that nothing but Omnipotence could break; and yet my love of Country comes over me like a strong wind and bears me unresistibly on with all these chains to the battle field.

The memories of the blissful moments I have spent with you come creeping over me, and I feel most gratified to God and to you that I have enjoyed them for so long. And hard it is for me to give them up and burn to ashes the hopes of future years, when, God willing, we might still have lived and loved together, and seen our sons grown up to honorable manhood, around us. I have, I know, but few and small claims upon Divine Providence, but something whispers to me - perhaps it is the wafted prayer of my little Edgar, that I shall return to my loved ones unharmed. If I do not my dear Sarah, never forget how much I love you, and when my last breath escapes me on the battle field, it will whisper your name. Forgive my many faults and the many pains I have caused you. How thoughtless and foolish I have often times been! How gladly would I wash out with my tears every little spot upon your happiness . . .

But, O Sarah! If the dead can come back to this earth and flit unseen around those they loved, I shall always be near you; in the gladdest days and in the darkest nights . . . always, always, and if there be a soft breeze upon your cheek, it shall be my breath, as the cool air fans your throbbing temple, it shall be my spirit passing by. Sarah do not mourn me dead; think I am gone and wait for thee, for we shall meet again . . . .


Swan Point Cemetery, Providence, Rhode Island

Saturday, April 19, 2025

"Listen, my children, and you shall hear . . . ."

Stand Your Ground, by Don Troiani

Monday is Patriots' Day, which probably doesn't mean much to you unless you live in Massachusetts or Maine (where it is a state holiday) or you're running in the Boston Marathon. But as a New Englander, it means a lot to me. Always has, in fact.

One Patriots' Day some 40 years ago, my fiancée, Liz, and I got up long before dawn and hit the road, bound for Lexington, Mass. We were headed to the annual reenactment of the battle that occurred there on April 19, 1775, after Paul Revere and other riders had warned that British troops were on the march. History buff that I am, I had volunteered to cover the event for The Providence Journal in Rhode Islandwhich I was working for at the time.

It was a raw, damp morning. We were none too comfortable standing near Lexington Green, waiting with perhaps 200 other hardy souls for the British regulars to march into view. A line of latter-day minutemen stood nervously on the green as the redcoats approached.

The reenactor who portrayed British Major John Pitcairn, his voice filled with rage, shouted at the colonials. "Disperse, ye rebels! Disperse!" Moments later, a shot rang out from some unknown quarter. And the rest, as they say, is history.

The Midnight Ride of Paul Revere, by Grant Wood

On April 18, 1775, the night before the battles of Lexington and Concord, Paul Revere set out to raise the alarm. Maine native Henry Wadsworth Longfellow is credited with immortalizing Paul Revere in Paul Revere's Ride, which he wrote in 1860 after visiting the Old North Church in Boston. The Maine Historical Society notes that "the basic premise of Longfellow's poem is historically accurate, but Paul Revere's role is exaggerated." Revere was not the only rider that night, "nor did he make it all the way to Concord." Revere was captured and then released (without his horse) in Lexington, "where he had stopped to warn Samuel Adams and John Hancock of the impending attack."

Paul Revere's Ride, by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

Listen, my children, and you shall hear
Of the midnight ride of Paul Revere,
On the eighteenth of April, in Seventy-five;
Hardly a man is now alive
Who remembers that famous day and year.

He said to his friend, "If the British march
By land or sea from the town to-night,
Hang a lantern aloft in the belfry arch
Of the North Church tower as a signal light,--
One if by land, and two if by sea;
And I on the opposite shore will be,
Ready to ride and spread the alarm
Through every Middlesex village and farm,
For the country folk to be up and to arm."

Then he said "Good-night!" and with muffled oar
Silently rowed to the Charlestown shore,
Just as the moon rose over the bay,
Where swinging wide at her moorings lay
The Somerset, British man-of-war;
A phantom ship, with each mast and spar
Across the moon like a prison bar,
And a huge black hulk, that was magnified
By its own reflection in the tide.

Meanwhile, his friend through alley and street
Wanders and watches, with eager ears,
Till in the silence around him he hears
The muster of men at the barrack door,
The sound of arms, and the tramp of feet,
And the measured tread of the grenadiers,
Marching down to their boats on the shore.

Then he climbed the tower of the Old North Church,
By the wooden stairs, with stealthy tread,
To the belfry chamber overhead,
And startled the pigeons from their perch
On the sombre rafters, that round him made
Masses and moving shapes of shade,--
By the trembling ladder, steep and tall,
To the highest window in the wall,
Where he paused to listen and look down
A moment on the roofs of the town
And the moonlight flowing over all.

Beneath, in the churchyard, lay the dead,
In their night encampment on the hill,
Wrapped in silence so deep and still
That he could hear, like a sentinel's tread,
The watchful night-wind, as it went
Creeping along from tent to tent,
And seeming to whisper, "All is well!"
A moment only he feels the spell
Of the place and the hour, and the secret dread
Of the lonely belfry and the dead;
For suddenly all his thoughts are bent
On a shadowy something far away,
Where the river widens to meet the bay,--
A line of black that bends and floats
On the rising tide like a bridge of boats.

Meanwhile, impatient to mount and ride,
Booted and spurred, with a heavy stride
On the opposite shore walked Paul Revere.
Now he patted his horse's side,
Now he gazed at the landscape far and near,
Then, impetuous, stamped the earth,
And turned and tightened his saddle girth;
But mostly he watched with eager search
The belfry tower of the Old North Church,
As it rose above the graves on the hill,
Lonely and spectral and sombre and still.
And lo! as he looks, on the belfry's height
A glimmer, and then a gleam of light!
He springs to the saddle, the bridle he turns,
But lingers and gazes, till full on his sight
A second lamp in the belfry burns.

A hurry of hoofs in a village street,
A shape in the moonlight, a bulk in the dark,
And beneath, from the pebbles, in passing, a spark
Struck out by a steed flying fearless and fleet;
That was all! And yet, through the gloom and the light,
The fate of a nation was riding that night;
And the spark struck out by that steed, in his flight,
Kindled the land into flame with its heat.
He has left the village and mounted the steep,
And beneath him, tranquil and broad and deep,
Is the Mystic, meeting the ocean tides;
And under the alders that skirt its edge,
Now soft on the sand, now loud on the ledge,
Is heard the tramp of his steed as he rides.

It was twelve by the village clock
When he crossed the bridge into Medford town.
He heard the crowing of the cock,
And the barking of the farmer's dog,
And felt the damp of the river fog,
That rises after the sun goes down.

It was one by the village clock,
When he galloped into Lexington.
He saw the gilded weathercock
Swim in the moonlight as he passed,
And the meeting-house windows, black and bare,
Gaze at him with a spectral glare,
As if they already stood aghast
At the bloody work they would look upon.

It was two by the village clock,
When he came to the bridge in Concord town.
He heard the bleating of the flock,
And the twitter of birds among the trees,
And felt the breath of the morning breeze
Blowing over the meadow brown.
And one was safe and asleep in his bed
Who at the bridge would be first to fall,
Who that day would be lying dead,
Pierced by a British musket ball.

You know the rest. In the books you have read
How the British Regulars fired and fled,---
How the farmers gave them ball for ball,
From behind each fence and farmyard wall,
Chasing the redcoats down the lane,
Then crossing the fields to emerge again
Under the trees at the turn of the road,
And only pausing to fire and load.

So through the night rode Paul Revere;
And so through the night went his cry of alarm
To every Middlesex village and farm,---
A cry of defiance, and not of fear,
A voice in the darkness, a knock at the door,
And a word that shall echo for evermore!
For, borne on the night-wind of the Past,
Through all our history, to the last,
In the hour of darkness and peril and need,
The people will waken and listen to hear
The hurrying hoof-beats of that steed,
And the midnight message of Paul Revere.


Monday, November 11, 2024

Essay: Remembering Dad on Veterans Day

Leonide D. Carrier (1912-2003)

By Paul Carrier

If you define a hero as someone who has been honored for his valor and courage under fire, then my father didn't fit the bill.

But there are other definitions of heroism.

Leonide Daniel Carrière (my Québec-born grandfather William Carrière dropped the final "e" after Dad came along) was a member of what Tom Brokaw has called the Greatest Generation. Born to Franco-American parents in Southbridge, Mass., the first of three sons, he was drafted into the Army in 1942, when he was already 30 and hoping to get married. 

Dad started out in an artillery unit. He expected to end up on the front lines. But his right knee locked up at sea; he couldn't walk. When his outfit landed in North Africa, he had to stay behind for surgery while his buddies headed to war. The operation was a success. Once Dad recovered, he was transferred to the 136th Military Police Co., with which he served in North Africa and Italy.

So, my father did not see combat. He did not earn a Purple Heart, like my late uncle, Albert Archambeault, my mother's brother, who was wounded in France. Dad did not receive a Bronze Star, like my wife’s late uncle, Alfred Mello, who fought on during one battle in France as the lone surviving machine gunner in his outfit.

Instead, Dad was an MP. His wartime stories involved, not battlefield heroics, but touching personal vignettes.

Like the fact that he failed to reach his fiancée (my mother, Rita) when he called her unexpectedly from North Carolina to say goodbye as his unit shipped out ahead of schedule. Mom was out shopping, picking up a new hat for a planned rendezvous with her future husband in New York before his outfit sailed. Preoccupied with seeing him, she lost out on her last chance to speak with him by phone before he deployed.

Like the remarkably tall soldiers from Senegal whom he met in Casablanca. He was intimidated by their fearsome-looking scimitars, but they befriended him because French was his first language, and theirs as well.

Like the British soldiers he encountered who, as my father once put it, “were friendly enough, but they talked so fast I never could make out too much of what they were saying.”

Like the heart-stopping terror of seeing German bombers over North Africa at night, the sky alight with Allied anti-aircraft fire.

Like the time he went to midnight Mass in St. Peter’s Square in Rome on Christmas Day.

Like the Army buddy who took tons of pictures when he and Dad went to Switzerland on leave, and then promised to send the negatives to my father stateside, but never did.

Like the fact that Dad and my mother (they married in 1946) wrote to each other almost every day during the years that they were apart, usually in English, but sometimes in French.

Like the frighteningly rough crossing when he finally sailed home late in 1945 aboard a storm-tossed aircraft carrier.

Dad was discharged from the Army as a private first class on Dec. 8, 1945. He once told me, somewhat apologetically, that he never got a shot at a promotion because he was "just an MP."

But he did his part in that rare thing -- a just war -- when the forces of light and darkness wrestled for control of the world. He showed up. He was prepared to face the enemy, if fate decreed it. He knew the meaning of duty. And that makes him a hero in my book.